If you really like him and want to see him again, then you should tell him so. I think a lot of American women put too much pressure on men saying I love you rather than developing the relationship.
I’m also going to refer to Björn’s answer below: ‘Dunno about the “love you part” it might be the truth, you have to understand that over here its a bit different in some things.
After the 4th time I finally smartened up and focused on moving on.
You can for example meet a girl and have a very passionate time but more often than not its not more than that and people move on.
It could very well be that he might be set in those ways and not think further than that even though he might actually have very strong feelings for you and not sure how to convey them.’ –Björn Q: “So is that a normal thing..
The phrase “finding a man who wants to be a grown-up” came up several times.
This response summarized the challenge nicely: “Meeting a man who I feel compatible with, feeling attracted to that same man AND having him treat me well.” This is what all the online dating methods call the phase.
that we always have to initiate the conversation (online)?
” -clotilde A: Judging from commenters, it does seem the women are initiating the conversation more than the Swedes. Maybe he’s shy, maybe he doesn’t know what to say (small talk is not their strong point), or maybe he is an ass.
I also recommend Online Dejting (in swedish) to read dating reviews.
If you are not in Sweden then I recommend checking out Swedish clubs in the States as a starter.
I’ve come to realize that he is not good for me and have left twice but he has come back every time without promising me a future.