over a week ago we had an amazing outdoor activity. So we spent that weekend training, and we had lunch and laughs afterwards.
After that weekend, he never contacted me or we haven’t talked.
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Sometimes I didn’t realise men were interested in me and I ghosted them unintentionally when it turned out they were interested, so, I have done the ghosting myself. He began to slither away, but we would always get back together. So, I am making the effort to work on myself, mentally I feel great.
Thing is, everyone talking on this forum about being ghosted has probably done it themselves to others whether you realise it or not!!! It’s not just, “I met the greatest person and I’m so sad they weren’t into me.” Let emotion take a back seat, enjoy your life, take into consideration that you are still a catch, that you too have power (not just the person who decided to leave) and you should weigh up LOGISTICALLY whether they were actually, indeed, right for you. 3 weeks ago when I was in the hospital for a week after suffering my first seizures while at work, my ghost had had enough. I am finally sleeping and feeling rested allows me to make better decisions, I know I didn’t do anything wrong, so it’s his loss.
OK, so now that we know why, let’s talk about what to do to help you move on to greener pastures. Girls will come up with all kinds of deluded reasons why they absolutely must initiate contact.
He stopped initiating contact with you because he is no longer interested in you.
But i stop them from becoming full blown by reminding myself that if his reason for disappearing is because of his unwillingness to support me when i’m going through a stressful time, do i really want that kind of relationship?
I truly value my happiness and value as an individual.
If he was the right guy for you…well he would be with you!
He wouldn’t have come up with a list of reasons to never see or speak to you again, and proceed to never see or speak to you again.
So a shoddy treatment of me from someone who claims to love me is not on. I am dealing with rejection, emotional abuse and co-dependancy. Totally not looking for anyone he walked up to me and I thought hey he’s cute let’s give it a go.